Sunday, November 2, 2008

Kinky Sex. Or is it?

I think I'm getting a wee bit jaded when it comes to what constitutes "Kinky Sex".  My best friend confided in me today that while she's been having an affair, she's been having the "raciest" (her word, not mine) sex ever.. so naturally I was intrigued...  Turns out she'd only ever had missionary style sex with her husband (while he sweated over her - again her words not mine)!  SO, when she got with this other guy, he told her to straddle him, while he was in his car, parked outside on the street (albeit at 10.30pm).  SO... She fucked him, in his car, while straddling his lap, her arse knocking against the steering wheel, not once, or twice, but FIVE FUCKING TIMES yesterday.

That got me thinking.  She thought *that* was totally kinky.  I thought that it's kinda "hot" but I didn't consider it particularly kinky.  When I was 17 I lost my virginity in a car, parked in the sand dunes.  And then when I was about 19 I got really drunk off my ass in an English Pub, and woke up in the back seat of my friend Joe's car, having sex, in France.

Really though, as I thought more about it today, it's all about your imagination.  SO, she coulda been talking during the whole experience about opening the window, so random strangers might hear, or ever look in on them, while they're fucking like rabbits on a main street.  Or maybe she left out the part that he grabbed her by the arms, and shoved them behind her back, all the while holding them tight while he fucks her.  Perhaps she was aggressive, jumping on his lap, ripping open his pants, pulling his cock out, and pushing it into her cunt; all while she ravished his body, slapping his face, squeezing his throat while shoving her tongue deep into his mouth.

Kinky sex I think comes down to whether or not one or both of you have an imagination.

So, while I was sitting on the hood of my car, watching my kids climb a tree today, I coerced my husband to get into the car & have sex with me.  He thought it was a *very* kinky afternoon....  I think the fact that my friend is having an affair, quite "kinky".  Definitely Racey.  The few times a year that I have "missionary sex" with my husband, it's definitely kinky missionary sex...  I'm usually the one on top, and he's in the missionary position, with his legs open, and me in between, riding his cock up and down, although I'm telling him, that I'm the one with the cock, and he's the one who is getting fucked.