Blogging is sooooo 2004!

Twitter, Flickr, Facebook Make Blogs Look So 2004

By Paul Boutin 10.20.08

Thinking about launching your own blog? Here's some friendly advice: Don't. And if you've already got one, pull the plug.

Writing a weblog today isn't the bright idea it was four years ago. The blogosphere, once a freshwater oasis of folksy self-expression and clever thought, has been flooded by a tsunami of paid bilge. Cut-rate journalists and underground marketing campaigns now drown out the authentic voices of amateur wordsmiths. It's almost impossible to get noticed, except by hecklers. And why bother? The time it takes to craft sharp, witty blog prose is better spent expressing yourself on Flickr, Facebook, or Twitter.

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Seriously though, a bit of me is really sad.  I know video is quicker, and flashier, but for me it's all about the WRITING.  In long form.   I know people talk about "Twitter" all the time, but I've never really taken the time to figure it out, or look it over.  It's just a quick sentence or two, which can be kind of fun (like a status update, if you're familiar with facebook).

My problem has never been that I don't want to write, it's that I hate having to weed parts of me out, or censor what it is I'm really thinking because *this* might not be the proper venue for it.

The end perhaps?

WOW, well time has just flown by.  It seems like summer was just a blink of the eye ago, but I guess it's been a bit longer than that ;-)  I know I've been MIA, but I'm not out of commission.  I've been playing plenty with my special subs, but lately, I just haven't felt like sharing.  Probably because when I share I get an influx of e-mail or instant messages from men who want to play, and to be perfectly honest, there just isn't enough hours in the day for me to see anymore of you.  I think I'm quite set with my "regulars" & then my family.

I'm also sick to death of the "I'm going to be in the area in the next few hours/days/minutes, and would love to "hook up" with you".  I can't believe I'm saying this, but I am NOT that kind of girl!

Which I think means it's time for you to raise the bar in order to garner a response.  You'd have to be pretty special to get my attention to begin with, and then most certainly intelligent, nice, and special to keep it (as you can see by all the men who've come and gone in the blink of an eye, because as I get to know them, I realize I don't like them, or the playtime was *not all that*.

Maybe it's just that I'm ready to be done with this whole "Ms Nichole, Barely-Dirty" sex blogging thing.  I actually have been writing in another blog which is more personal, and less "sex / jerk off material" which I use as a "diary" or "therapy" more than anything.  Most of the people who read my other blog are women - and gay men (mostly because I talk about my bi-sexuality in it, I'm sure).

I've never found a way just to be myself all of the time, to everyone I know.  I spend most of my life hiding certain aspects of myself from various friends, acquaintances, and of course extended family. I'm actually kinda tired of it.  It's exhausting, and when you're a girl who prides herself on being truthful and telling it like it is, it's a hard pill to swallow when you're constantly omitting things from your conversations and daily interactions with loved ones.

I think I'm also in need of a part time job. I don't really like not making any money, and although I love my children to death, I don't like spending every second with them.  It's dumbing me down, and I can see myself going down a path that I don't care for, or believe in.  I'm not the "barefoot and preggers" in the kitchen kinda girl.

One of the problems is that I have an over-inflated ego of myself & my worth, and would not want to work like a regular schmuck for a regular rate of pay.  I also know that I would need something that keeps my attention, and that might be a constant learning experience, on many different topics.

I am *NOT* interested in pro-domination, even though I definitely thought long and hard about it, and boy would it be super easy money.  That's part of my problem.  Writing this blog, and getting these constant requests, shows me that I could easily set up a cookie cutter line of "clients" but it's just not me.

I have no idea what kind of a job would allow me to set my own hours, work from home or wherever, and would allow me to do it in the middle of the night if the mood struck.

So for those of you who have any coherent thoughts, or words of wisdom, I'd love to hear them.  Otherwise, this just might be the end...

RE: Cross-dressing & sissy fucking.

Got O.D.G all sissified up.  Make-up, hair, and sexy sexy lingerie that we'd bought earlier that day.  When he she was all purdy and made up I thought he she looked almost good enough for me to fuck.  But not quite.

I then slipped into my matching outfit, fluffed up my hair, slid on my stockings 'n heels, and grabbed my strap on.  All the while my little new internet buddy was rubbing his cock which he'd pulled out through his pants, and was visibly drooling.  When I caught sight of him, I grabbed a roll of electrical tape and taped his wrists behind his back.

I had O.D.G step over and put her ass in front of his face.  I pulled up her petticoats and slapped her ass.  Then I told jerk off to slide his tongue up her ass, and lick it.  He refused.  I grabbed him by the hair, and shoved his face into her ass.  I held it there, grinding it closer to my sissy sluts asshole.

After she got a good ass rimming, I then forced my sissy to kneel between jerk offs legs, and I described to her in minute detail how I wanted her to suck his cock, which by the way, was still bulging out of his pants.  Still rock hard.  Even after being forced to eat another dudes asshole.  Damn, I'm good.

Sissy's little cock was bulging against her pretty panties, and I could see it beginning to drip against the lacey top.  She was moaning and slurping, and going down on the horny internet dude like he was her last meal ;-)  I was getting totally turned on while watching their public display.  It was making me so horny that I went over and slid my strap on cock into internet buddies mouth, and told him to get it nice and wet...  He was now moaning and humping sissies mouth with his cock, forcing her to take him deeper and deeper.

I moved behind my sissy slut, and in one slick move, had my strap on cock up her arse.  She's such a little whore, and was totally gagging for it.  She wanted it so bad that she kept grinding back up on it, all the while getting her face fucked hard.

Internet dude was begging to be allowed to bust his nut all over sissies face, and that sounded like a splendid idea to me ;-)  I told him to count out load to 5 and on 5, to blow his wad of cum all over her face.  Sissy started whimpering, and humping the air like a deranged, horny dog.  I fucked her ass harder and harder until I got enough friction going to make me squirt all over my legs.  It was very hot, and I came really good.  It was quite a good play date ;-0

Listening to:  Ray Charles & Van Morrison - Crazy Love.  Reading:  50 Great Hikes in MD.    Watching:  Planet Earth.

Do you like to cross-dress?  What's your favourite thing to wear, and why?  Comments...

Cross-Dressers

Today I spent the day having fun with O.D.G    Lingerie shopping at Nordstoms, where we got matching sets.  Ooh la la.  Matching shoes from Nine West.  Joint facials & a wax from Roxie Day Spa.  Then it was off home to get ready.

O.D.G has an amazing house.  A master bathroom with a tub that fits about 4 people easily.  So, when we arrived, O.D.G slipped into something much more to my taste, and quickly pulled out champagne and chocolate covered strawberries from the fridge.  I make sure she wears frilly, silky feminine things at all times but when we're alone, then I really go all out.

She drew the bath, and poured lots of sweet smelling bath oil, and a handful of rose petals.  It looked delish and I couldn't wait to get in.  She then got in with me, and sat behind me, washing my back, then my hair.  She shaved my legs and gave me a foot rub.  While I relaxed with my eyes closed, she did the same to herself.

Waiting for us were soft fluffy bathrobes and towels which we both slipped into.  Just as I was about to start on her transformation, the doorbell rang.  Perfect timing.  It was a very horny sub whom I'd been texting with earlier.  He was hoping to play with us.  O.D.G knew nothing about it and was totally stunned when I led this complete stranger up to his bedroom.

Beg for more.. cause I'm tired.  I just got home, and I'm not able to type another word.  Perhaps I'll finish it up tomorrow....

Vegas Baby!

Just got back from Vegas yesterday evening.  Had to tell the husband upon arrival that I'd lost $16,000 in the casino.  However, that was over 4 days of playing.... He still FLIPPED.  After 3 sessions of sex, I'd managed to make him forget about it.  For the time being anyways. I didn't have the nerve or heart to tell him that after 6 hours on the first day, I was up $41,000.  If I'd called him to tell him, he'd have made me buy a plane ticket and come home right then and there.

I'd gone for a girls weekend with my friends from high school.  We did our own informal high school reunion at 3 places around the globe.  1 in Las Vegas, 1 in Dublin, Ireland, 1 in London, England and we had a web teleconference of each for everyone to view.  Some of the girls I met up with, I hadn't seen in well over 15 years.  It was eye opening.  Some of them were so old.  Although we're all the same age, give or take 1 year, on either side.

It was a very fun 4 days, with lots of catching up and gossip involved.  The rest of the time, when I couldn't sleep I gambled.  Not very well obviously.  LOL.

Anyway, before I left I had a few crazy weeks.  I don't know if I wanna talk about any of it or not... we'll see.

On a more serious note, for all the women who read this blog... Oct is breast cancer awareness month.

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HNT

Today is Half-Nekkid Thursday,  and I'm outta pics.  Someone will have to arrange some time with me to take some photographs.

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That's it, I'm playing with Jack at 4pm, so I'm rushing out the door.  Will write more later.. tomorrow I promise!!

Playing Catch-Up

I know it seems like I've been gone forever (certainly the e-mail has mounted up over the last few weeks) and God knows I have lots to fill in, but really it's only been about 8 days!  The greatest news is that I've now not only completed and sent in our 2005, and now 2006 taxes, but now our 2007 taxes are done also, and guess what, if I mail them in today or tomorrow, I still might get my "rebate/stimulous" check!! (People... you have until Oct 15th - I hope, though with all this crap about a $700 Billion bail out, who knows)!

Unfortunately, I had wanted to use a big portion of our refund on a trip to Brazil over Xmas to see a plastic surgeon and get my tits done, but instead, it's gone to rehab and a massive master bathroom redo, new kitchen floor, and new hardwood floors upstairs in my Rockville house.  On top of those renovations, I'm now saddled with some repairs at the Columbia house, another master bathroom plumbing leak in the shower, which will mean new floor and new vanities, and new tile, and a whole new shower.  Most of that house could do with a nice new paint job, but I've been busy working on the dungeon.  Everything from our original dungeon (which was in the basement of the house) had been moved out to one of our very oversize barns, while the house had been on the market.  GROAN.  So after much thought, and because the jail cells are outside, and the stables etc., I've decided that this is as good as any place to keep it.  Adjacent from the big red barn (I sound like Margaret Wiseman) is another good sized barn which I'm thinking would work nicely for the more intimate games, like feminizing slaves..

I need to have a few more electrical outlets put in, and the windows replaced with frosted glass, and new lockable doors, and there's a few electrical projects that need done - in one of the big storms one our outdoor laterns (you know those old looking kind on a big lampost)? well one had blown over and broke near the base of the lampost, leaving wires exposed.  So someone just went at them with scissors and snipped it off, leaving part of the post sticking out of the ground.  God it's hard to explain.  I should just take a picture!

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And look, now there's shit growing out of it!  So anyway that needs to get taken out of the ground, and a new one put in!

I've been taking down stall doors (because at one time we boarded horses), and having slaves come over and clean up, strip out all the hay, sweep, and then varnish the wooden floors, and replace boards, paint window frames, and put up drywall in places.  We've also pulled out the big old sinks, and replaced that with an actual full bathroom with a shower.

Just this week I got my letter from INS stating that at the end of October, I come in and sit my citizenship exam!!  SO, if all goes well, and I pass, I could be sworn in, and be allowed to vote very soon!!  I must go pick up a booklet and study for it in the meantime.

And on the subject of voting, I can't fucking believe when I talk to my friends (who are mostly American Citizens), that they aren't going to VOTE!!  What's wrong with you people?  I don't even care if you're one of those people, like my husband, who will vote for John McCain, just because he's a registered Republican??  I mean even though he likes Obama, because he's a republican, he just can't wrap his mind around changing to the democratic party!!??

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Furthermore, if you live in CA you should know that they are trying right now to over turn Gay Marriage - you should SAY NO to Proposition 8.  Same sex couples should have the same rights and protections afforded to them, as any other citizen.

And then there's all this Sarah Palin stuff going on.. and the debates.  I can't tear myself away from it.

Bill Maher on Real Time (HBO) was fucking hilarious the other night with his whole "Free Levi" skit.  I simply can't wait to see his movie - Religulous.  The fact that he's put together so many religions into one movie, will if nothing else, give you an education on what other people spend their time worshiping.  (It's not my feet people)!! Disbeliefnet.

I spent yesterday at The Museum of Natural History with the husband, and the kids. (The new Ocean Hall was pretty cool, but the mammal exhibit is still my favourite). After that we wandered the mall, and then did dinner downtown.

OF COURSE, I've also been playing.  Probably not as much as I would like, but I'll bring you up to speed on that too...

I had Josh all day Friday.  He's been helping get me back into shape.  I have really packed on the pounds since coming back here!!  Now I have to go through all this hard fucking work to lose it.  Again.  Anyway, we went spinning (and this time he did NOT throw up), however, after burning 750 calories, which is what, about 1/4 lb?? I promptly then went and had a margarita - also about 700 calories, so clearly I've got to stop drinking!!! NO.. did I just say that??  After that, I went back to his place.  He put on nothing, except a tiny, itty bitty leather G-String, and cooked for me.  Watching him move around while I sat and drank sangria (shit more calories - see how fucking hard this is??) was giving me the tingles.  So while the turkey was in the oven, I forced him to his knees, and had him get under the dining room table and eat me out.  After two very nice orgasms, I went off to the shower, while he checked on dinner.  With another hour to kill, I made him exfoliate my face, and then give me a face mask treatment, all while I relaxed and listened to whatever he'd loaded up on his IPOD and was piping through his house.

Earlier that week I'd been talking to a guy from NYC who wanted to see me when he was next in MD, and during that conversation he mentioned this "puppy training" thing.. well trust a guy to come up with that.  Eating re-gurgitated food from a dog bowl, is definitely not something I've ever done before, but I have to say he'd made me a little curious.  I mean I sorta already do it all the time, with my kids.  I chew up food and have taken it out of my mouth and given it to them numerous times before, but doing that with a grown man, had never entered my head.... SO..

After Josh had put all the finishing touches together, and was about to sit down with me at the table, I instructed him to get on his knees.  I put a leash around his neck, and looped it to the table leg.  I then went and fetched his dogs' bowl.  Terrence is a huge Rottweiler.  I couldn't be bothered to wash it out, and knowing that Josh works in a hospital, wondered what his reaction to all this was going to be.  Was he going to freak and go all OCD on me?  Was he going to refuse me?  I should have known.  He got a massive hard on.

I sat down, and looked at the beautiful plate before me.  He'd gone to so much work.  Turkey, mashed potatoes, carrots, broccoli & cauliflower, stuffing, and my favourite cranberry relish.  I wasn't sure I wanted to share.  I took his plate, and as I do at home for my own doggies, I scraped everything off, and into the bowl.  Josh asked about a drink of wine.  I told him that whatever I drank, he could have later.  When I pissed it into his mouth.  For now he should shut up and eat.

Dinner was delicious.  Towards the end when I couldn't eat another bite, I decided to have him sit up and beg.. so I would chew it up, and then bend over and spit it directly into his mouth.  His cock was still rock fucking hard.  His face was bright red with embarrassment and shame.  I really had fun with that.

Of course after dinner I did need to pee, so I took Josh by the leash, and walked him upstairs to the bathroom.  He laid down in the tub, and I relieved myself directly into his mouth.  When I was done, I had him lick me clean.

I also spent some time with Seth this week, and I'll tell you all about taking his virgin ass later on.  Right now, I have to go take care of a few things.

Still Reading: Madness.